Letters to Editor

We have read your article about breast implants and plastic surgery in general and we are outraged! Not all women who have chosen to enhance their features surgically are insecure or shallow! My husband loves my new breasts and so do all the people that we play with. It is shallow of you to think that we are somehow different than everybody else and judge us based on our personal choices!

Kara ( and Mike )

LifestyleVoice: Judging a person on choices that they make in life is really the only way you can judge anybody at all. Risking things like your health and well-being of your future children for a better look would be considered "shallow" by most people simply because it is a selfish decision that is based on an individual insecurity. The funny thing is that women who have breast implants are almost never happier with their body image than they were before the surgery.

Also, from my personal experience and testimonials of many people I have talked with, breast implants never appear or behave as natural breasts and feel very "non-human" to a touch. Let me put it this way: I have never met a person who would turn a woman down for not having breast implants, but I have heard plenty of men (and women) who would consider breast implants a deal-breaker. So, why narrow a pool of people who find you attractive?

Hello, Lifestyle Voice! Thank you for putting out such a great lifestyle publication. I read it every week and can't wait for the new issue to come out every Thursday. One of your first issues contained an article about the Sybian sex toy. I have to say we were so intrigued that we bought one for ourselves. Oh my God - it is amazing! Thank you so much for turning us onto this. My husband loves "driving" the machine as I ride it for hours. Keep up the good work!

L&C

LifestyleVoice: Thank you for being such a fan of our magazine! It's great to hear that you are enjoying one of the products we wrote about. I have had many couples write to me who have gotten this toy in the past month and I have not heard a single complaint. It seems that at the very least couples who get the Sybian are having a great time. One reader purchased the Sybian sent a letter in regards to the female ejaculation during orgasm a story on this phenomenon will be done in a month or so, she never knew did you? Hope you stay tuned.

Hello, there! Great magazine! We are loyal readers now. Just wanted to make a comment on your "Swinger Guide" section. Every week we read it and find very little information that we can use. We have been in the lifestyle for 5 years and it seems that your articles are targeting newbies. Will you be writing anything for the veterans? Thank you for your answer!

Michelle

LifestyleVoice: The "Swinger Guide" section of our magazine was originally designed to target newbies and help them in starting out in the lifestyle. After all, there is very little a seasoned swinger like yourself can learn about the lifestyle at this point. However, we do believe that if you do not discriminate against newbies and date them as well as couples of your experience, you will find that reading the information that is not particularly new to you can be actually useful. It is good for you to know what goes on in the mind of newbies and what challenges they are working through as they meet couples like yourselves. So, we would still recommend that you keep your eye on this section as many couples that you meet in the lifestyle are still trying to get up to speed and will most likely adjust their etiquette to what they read in publications like ours.