I read your article on thongs and found it fascinating. Do you think that thongs symbolize a higher sexuality level of a woman?
Amie & Joe
LifestyleVoice: Yes, I think women who wear thongs are more in tune with their own sexuality and have a firm grip on what is sexy. "Sexy is as sexy does!" They are definitely more in tune with what's going on in fashion world than more conservative females. Women who dress sexy are confident that they look good and they want to flaunt it. Regardless of what anyone thinks, as long as she feels good about herself and she thinks she's attractive that's all that matters. Thong underwear is concealed and unseen so you have not way of knowing who is wearing one or not. But you can safely surmise that my 72-year-old aunt wouldn't be caught dead in a thong, but my 19-year-old niece, she would have no issue and in fact I'd bet she owns at least a 100 pair. How you dress, even your undergarments can be an expression of your sexuality.
Thank you for your article on safe sex. Our dilemma is that we will not do oral without protection, a condom or a dental dam. How do we say no to a couple who will not consider the same level of safe sex as us.
Sue & Bill
LifestyleVoice: We all have our lifestyle rules and we should absolutely stick to them. When you meet a new couple, tell them that your comfort level and your rules regarding safe sex is different and that you don't deviate from them. It's always better to be upfront so there won't be any disappointments. You will find that most swingers will have no problem with your rules. But there may be a few who feel that your rules aren't worth their time and won't play with you. Having the right to say no is one of the basic etiquettes of swinging. Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to ambivalent feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "no" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a nice simple "No, thank you". You don't even have to give an explanation, if fact, don't even give an explanation, that is what usually causes the problems. Everyone has the right to say "no" at any time, to anyone, without explanation.
Although the article about cock rings was very informative, I didn't make any mention of how it feels to the female. I have never had sex with a guy while he is wearing a cock ring. Does a penis feel different inside with the cock-ring on and if so how?
Anonymous Female
LifestyleVoice: Well you are in for a treat. When a man achieves an erection, he places the cock ring around the base of his penis shaft in order to limit amount of blood lost from the penis. As you may know, an erection occurs when the penis fills with blood, so in order to help maintain a full, firm erection, a man uses a cock ring to help hold the blood in the penis. The benefit of this is that it allows a man to retain his full erection during sexual intercourse, providing the maximum amount of pleasure to his partner as well as himself. You won't even feel the ring, but you will definitely feel the benefits. A secondary benefit of the cock ring is that the added pressure around the base of the penis shaft helps prolong sex by preventing the man from ejaculating too quickly. As a result, the cock ring will make his cock larger and firmer throughout the duration of intercourse and but he will be able to last much longer than usual as well.
